The Ins and Outs of Flirting With Older Women
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Flirting is fun, at least for most people. It is a safe way to show someone you are interested without being overt or having to leave your comfort zone. Almost everyone does it at some point in their lives, whether they are pursuing an interest or merely having fun. Flirting is a form of flattery and often brings out the best in people, as flattery increases one's self esteem.
There appears to be a new trend becoming increasingly popular where younger men are pursuing and flirting with older women. The first criticisms suggested that elder women just wanted younger men as their "boy toys" but further research suggested the younger men would flirt with older women, as they appreciated their maturity level.
How Younger and Older Women Differ
Many have said that younger women are far easier to please than older women, and that may also be the case when it comes to flirting with older women. Males have reported that getting a younger woman's attention is practically effortless, but not so much the case when they are flirting with older women. Why is this? There is clearly no single answer that is scientifically based, but several assumptions and guesses have been made. First of all, a younger man may lose confidence when flirting with older women.
Often times, older women exude such a high level of confidence that it takes a brave young man to attempt to soften her up. Secondly, older women tend to know exactly what they want, which can lead to the illusion of "pickiness". This is not necessarily true, it just means that they know what they want and hence a person has to try a little harder to figure it out.
Another thing that sometimes draws men away from flirting with older women is that they often don't put themselves on the market so to speak. Older women (especially those who have gone through a divorce or are widowed) tend to be very independent, and hence don't give off the "flirt with me" vibe. Henceforth, if a man is not on the prowl for a woman to flirt with, he may not go for the older women unless there is some sort of introduction to begin with. Another thing that sometimes men worry about when it comes to flirting with older women as opposed to younger women is that older women who are looking for companionship also want a relationship.
Young women love the dating game and the constant change of the dating scene, whereas many older women are through with the games and want a steady relationship. Anyone flirting with older women should realize the possibility that they may be looking at a more steady relationship, and if they are opposed to that they should consider looking elsewhere.
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