When Is Speed Seduction Appropriate?
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Not every situation to flirt will afford you a lot of time to do so. If you're faced with a short amount of time to make your interest in someone known speed seduction is appropriate. Speed seduction should be generally limited to emergency situations. Otherwise the more time you have for someone to warm up to you flirting with them the better. Here are some scenarios in which speed seduction is appropriate.
Departures
You've been trying to catch someone's eye all night and they suddenly announce their departure. You've got to act fast as to not forfeit the opportunity to spend more time with this person. Offer to walk them out and just say that you had really been hoping to have the opportunity to talk with them. Create an opportunity for a future encounter, like another even with future friends, or meeting them for coffee or lunch. Keep your suggestion light, something this person could be comfortable doing with you while knowing very little about you. Speed seduction will work in your favor in this case.
Crowded Situations
You bump into someone incredibly attractive and the nature of a crowded situation lends to them needed to go back to friends, or just moving in another direction. Speed seduction is your only hope to secure the chance to see them again. Give them a compliment, laugh off the fact that you find them cute. Be blunt without being invasive. Offer up your phone number for the chance to chat in a more conducive setting. Again, speed seduction here is your only option.
Change Encounters
You run into the deli by your office for a quick lunch between meetings and strike up a conversation with an incredibly attractive person about why this deli is the best one within a five block radius. You've got to get back to the office, but employing a little speed seduction can ensure that you'll see this person again. Flirt lightly by telling them you're glad to have met someone with equally as good taste in lunch meat, and drop them your business card. Or ask them if they'd like to meet you at the same place tomorrow for lunch when you have more time. Use the good food as an excuse to ask for company. Speed seduction can open doors for more substantial flirting, and definitely the opportunity to get to know someone beyond a brief encounter.
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